Writing

Tangible Artifacts: The Unicorn Horn

A good story has the power to change the world. Take the case of the unicorn: elusive yet ever present, the it has tantalized the hearts and minds of the Western world for over 2,000 years.  It appears in the Bible, in art, myth and story, and was, until the seventeenth century, considered to be [...]

Conversations on Passing

“I don’t see why you don’t pass.” I hate this statement. I said it a couple of weeks ago to a friend when they made a comment about their not passing, and as soon as I said it I internally smacked myself. I hate it when people say it to me; why, even if meant [...]

Visibly Masculine: Vulnerability

Earlier this year, I went on a first date with a guy.  Things were going well; we had good conversation over coffee, moved to another locale for a bite to eat, checked out a local gallery… it was good stuff. The innuendo was coming fast and heavy, and it was fairly obvious that there would [...]

Becoming a Man (Or: Where do you look when you have come to a masuline identity through the back door?)

Fair warning: you may disagree with what I have to say here, and you may be pissed of by it. Or you may agree – but either way, I would deeply appreciate hearing what you have to say – if you are into dialogue. If you’re going to call people names, not listen, or not [...]